Even if one is allowed by others
to open a window or a door in a courtyard, he should not open a window
opposite another's window, nor a door opposite another's door. Why?
When the Temple was destroyed, many Jews became ascetics and resolved
not to eat meat and not to drink wine. Rabbi Yehoshua asked them why.
They said, because the Temple does not have it anymore. He said, then
you should not eat bread, fruit, or drink water, because these too were
parts of the Temple service. Rather, in a house leave a small part
unpainted, and in a feast skip a dish.